Lifestyle Advice
for Wise Persons
Compiled by Michael P. Garofalo
Valley Spirit Center, Red Bluff, California
June 14, 2009
Seven
Perennial Spiritual Practices:
1. Transform your motivation: reduce craving
and find your soul's desire.
2. Cultivate emotional wisdom: heal your heart and learn to love.
3. Live ethically: feel good by doing good.
4. Concentrate and calm your mind.
5. Awaken your spiritual vision: see clearly and recognize the sacred in all
things.
6. Cultivate spiritual intelligence: develop wisdom and understand life.
7. Express spirit in action: embrace generosity and the joy of service.
- Roger Walsh, M.D., Ph.D.
Essential Spirituality: The 7 Central
Practices to Awaken Heart and Mind, 1999
Twelve
Gateways to Personal Growth
1. Preparation: Stairway to the Soul
2. Discover Your Worth: Opening to Life
3. Reclaim You Will: The Power to Change
4. Energize Your Body: A Foundation for Life
5. Manage Your Money: Sufficiency and Spiritual Practice
6. Tame Your Mind: Inner Peace and Simple Reality
7. Trust Your Intuition: Accessing Inner Guidance
8. Accept Your Emotions: The Center of the Cyclone
9. Face Your Fears: Living as Peaceful Warriors
10. Illuminate Your Shadow: Cultivating Compassion and Authenticity
11. Embrace Your Sexuality: Celebrating Life
12. Awaken Your Heart: The Healing Power of Love
13. Serve Your World: Completing the Circle of Life
- Dan Millman
Everyday Enlightenment: The Twelve Gateways
to Personal Growth, 1999
The Six Principles of Enlightened Living
The Six Perfections (Paramitas) in Mahayana Buddhism:
1. Generosity: charity, kind-hearted giving, altruism, unattached
generosity, boundless
openness, unconditional love (Dana) .
2. Virtue: ethics, morality, self-discipline, not harming, proper conduct, impeccability
(Sila).
3. Patience: tolerance, forbearance, acceptance, endurance (Kshanti).
4. Energy: diligence, courage, enthusiasm, vigor, effort (Virya).
5. Meditation: absorption, concentration, presence of mind, contemplation
(Dhyana).
6. Wisdom: transcendental wisdom, mystical insight, enlightenment (Prajna).
- Dzogchen
Buddhism, Dharma Talk: Six Principles of Enlightened Living and
Six Perfections (c 50
CE)
The Ten Emotions of Power
1. Love and Warmth
2. Appreciation and Gratitude
3. Curiosity
4. Excitement and Passion
5. Determination
6. Flexibility
7. Confidence
8. Cheerfulness
9. Vitality
10. Contribution
- Anthony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within, 1991, p. 264
Reverse Your
Biological Age By:
1. Changing your
perceptions.
2. Deep rest, restful awareness,
and restful sleep.
3. Lovingly nurturing you body through
healthy food.
4. Using nutritional complements
wisely.
5. Enhancing mind/body
integration: breathing exercises, yoga, tai chi, qigong, aikido, etc..
6. Exercise: strength and aerobic
conditioning.
7. Eliminating toxins from you
life.
8. Cultivating flexibility and
creativity in consciousness.
9. Love and loving
relationships.
10. Maintaining a youthful mind.
- Deepak Chopra,
M.D., and David Simon, M.D.
Grow Younger, Live Longer: Ten Steps
to Reverse Aging. (2001)
Confucian Virtues
Li: Propriety, reverence,
courtesy, ritual or the ideal standard of conduct.
Jen: Goodness, benevolence; recognition of value and concern for others,
no matter their rank or class.
Chun-Tzu: The idea of the true gentleman who lives according to the
highest ethical standards.
The gentleman displays five virtues: self-respect, generosity, sincerity,
persistence, and benevolence.
- Confucius (550-479 BCE)
The Analects
The Four Classic Western Cardinal
Virtues
1. Temperance: moderation, self-control,
mindful, purity, disciplined.
2. Prudence: wise, intelligent, knowledgeable, insightful, forward
thinking, sagacious, sound judgment.
3. Courage: fortitude, endurance, composure, determination, will,
overcoming adversity.
4. Justice: fairness, principled, harmony, equality, utility, rule of law.
- Plato (c 340 BCE),
Republic
The Ten Grave Precepts
1. Affirm life; Do not kill.
2. Be giving; Do not steal.
3. Honor the body; Do not misuse sexuality.
4. Manifest truth; Do not lie.
5. Proceed clearly; Do not cloud the mind.
6. See the perfection; Do not speak of others errors and faults.
7. Realize self and other as one; Do not elevate the self and blame others.
8. Give generously; do not be withholding.
9. Actualize harmony; Do not be angry.
10. Experience the intimacy of things; Do not defile the Eight Treasures.
- John Daido Loori, The Eight Gates of Zen, 2002, P. 240.
The Five Precepts of Mahayana Buddhism
Ten Positive Energy Prescriptions
1. Awaken intuition and rejuvenate
yourself.
2. Find a nurturing spiritual path.
3. Design an energy-aware approach to diet, fitness and health.
4. Generate positive emotional energy to counter negativity.
5. Develop a heart-centered sexuality.
6. Open yourself to the flow of inspiration and creativity.
7. Celebrate the sacredness of laughter, pampering, and the replenishment
of retreat.
8. Attract positive people and situations.
9. Protect yourself from energy vampires.
10. Create abundance.
- Judith Orloff, M.D..
Positive Energy, 2004
Dalai Lama's Rules for Living
- Take into account that great love and great achievements involve
great risk.
- When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
- Follow the three Rs: Respect for self, Respect for others,
Responsibility for all your actions.
- Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful
stroke of luck.
- Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
- Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
- When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to
correct it.
- Spend some time alone every day.
- Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
- Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
- Live a good and honorable life. Then when you get older and think
back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.
- A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
- In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current
situation. Don’t bring up the past.
- Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
- Be gentle with the earth.
- Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
- Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for
each other exceeds your need for each other.
- Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
- Dalai Lama, 2000, Source?
A Twelve-Point Program for Healthy
Aging
"1. Eat an anti-inflammatory diet.
2. Use dietary supplements wisely to support the body's defenses and
natural healing power.
3. Use preventive medicine intelligently: know your risks of age-related
disease, get appropriate diagnostic and screening
tests and immunizations, and treat problems (like elevated blood pressure and
cholesterol) in their early stages.
4. Get regular physical activity throughout life.
5. Get adequate rest and sleep.
6. Learn and practice methods of stress protection.
7. Exercise your mind as well as your body.
8. Maintain social and intellectual connections as you go through life.
9. Be flexible in mind and body: learn to adapt to losses and let go of
behaviors no longer appropriate for your age.
10. Think about and try to discover for yourself the benefits of aging.
11. Do not deny the reality of aging or put energy into trying to stop it.
Use the experience of aging as a stimulus
for spiritual awakening and growth.
12. Keep an ongoing record of the lessons you learn, the wisdom you gain,
and the values you hold. At critical points in
your life, read this over, add to it, revise it, and share it with people you
care about."
- Andrew Weil, M.D., Healthy Aging: A Lifelong Guide to Your Physical
and Spiritual Well-Being, 2005, p. 239.
Eight Elements West
1. Consistent Exercise: Energize through safe, results-oriented
exercise.
2. Body Alignment: Promote proper posture, spinal strength with
flexibility, and body awareness.
3. Natural Nutrition: Implement sound eating practices for life.
4. Sound Mind: Embrace life obstacles with self-awareness, reflection,
imagination and creativity.
5. Relaxation and Centering: Cultivate and calm the body-mind connection
everyday.
6. Community and Environment: Surround yourself with trusted friends and
family. Be kind to the Earth.
7. Individual Action: Time is precious. Let change begin now, with you.
8. Heart of the Human Spirit: Transform life through your heart, where
true strength resides.
- Eight
Elements West, 2005
Cultivating a Positive Mindset
Think in a calm, pacified, and reflective manner instead of being disturbed,
agitated, and impulsive in one's reactions.
Put ideas together rationally and arrive at the right judgment even in the
absence of obvious evidence or proof.
Decide, plan, and execute a course of action in a patient, persistent, and
disciplined manner.
Recognize the changes and be flexible in adapting to them.
Observe and perceive things with a sense of humor instead of outrage,
indignation, and anger.
Let go of useless and counterproductive thoughts, desires, and ambitions instead
of being preoccupied with them.
Relax and meditate or rest.
Resist temptation and coercion."
- Michael Fekete
Strength Training for Seniors,
Hunter House, 2006, p. 36
Some Guiding Principles for Integral Practices and
Institutions That Support Them:
1. They promote a simultaneous development of our various faculties.
2. They generally require mentors, rather than a single guru.
3. They require a strong and developing autonomy.
4. They are facilitated by personal traits that promote creativity in
general.
5. Though they encourage individual autonomy, they require surrender at
times to transformative agencies beyond ordinary functioning.
6. They require patience and the love of practice for its own sake.
7. They utilize inherited all-at-once responses, or psychosomatic
compliance for high-level change.
8. They utilize the manifold changes catalyzed by images and altered
states.
9. They enlist more that one mediation to achieve particular outcomes.
10. They surpass limits by negotiation rather than force.
11. They depend upon improvisation.
12. They utilized images of unity.
13. They require and facilitate conscious transitions between different
states of consciousness.
14. They depend on a developing awareness that transcends psychological
and somatic functioning.
15. They orient all our capacities and somatic processes toward the
extraordinary life arising in us.
- Michael Murphy, "The Future of the Body: Explorations Into the Further
Evolution of Human Nature," 1992, pp. 579-586.
Seven Precepts of Merlin:
First: Labor Diligently to acquire knowledge, for it is power.
Second: When in authority, decide reasonably, for thine authority may cease.
Third: Bear with fortitude the ills of life, remembering that no mortal sorrow
is perpetual.
Fourth: Love virtue - for it bringeth peace.
Fifth; Abhor vice - for it bringeth evil upon all.
Sixth: Obey those in authority in all just things, that virtue may be exalted.
Seventh: Cultivate the social virtues, so shalt thou be beloved by all men.
The motto of the Druids the world over is “United to Assist.”
The aim of the Druids is Unity, Peace and Concord.”
- Isaac Bonewits, Bonewit's Essential Guide to Druidism,
2006, p.162.
Desiderata
By Max Ehrmann
1952
“Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy. ”
- Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, 1927.
Max
Ehrmann (1872–1945), a poet and lawyer from Terre Haute, Indiana.
Creating Optimism
1. Connect to Others, socialize, maintain friendships.
2. Maintain Autonomy: a feeling of independence and a sense of being
in control.
3. Self-Esteem: a function of how you perceive others view you.
4. Competence: relates to how effective you feel you are.
5. Purpose: fulfillment and meaning throughout your life.
6. Connection to Your Body: vital to our complete sense of self…
Exercise, mind/body arts, pampering, wholesome food, rest,
relaxation.
7. Connection to Nature: its permanence, its beauty and power.
8. Spirituality: a powerful weapon against depression…
- Bob Murry, PhD and Alicia Fortinberry, MS, 2004
Creating Optimism, 8 Tips for Happiness
Principles for Living in Balance
1. Attitude
2. Accountability
3. Commitment
4. Supportive Relationships
5. Service
6. Personal Mastery
7. Faith
- Joel Levey and Michele Levey,
Living in
Balance
The Ten American Indian
Commandments
Remain close to the
Great Spirit.
Show great respect for your fellow beings.
Give assistance and kindness wherever needed.
Be truthful and honest at all times.
Do what you know to be right.
Look after the well-being of mind and body.
Treat the Earth and all the dwell thereon with respect.
Take full responsibility for your actions.
Dedicate a share of your efforts to the greater good.
Work together for the benefit of all mankind.
Poster of the Ten American Indian Commandments. 2000
Ground Rules for
Living
1. Be Positive.
2. Accept Yourself.
3. Let Go.
4. Express Your Love.
5. Accept Full Responsibility for Your Life.
6. Forgive Yourself.
7. Handle What Does Not Work.
8. Let Go of Resentment.
9. Don't Overspend.
10. Find a Dream to Go For.
11. Serve. Have Your Life Be More Than You.
12. Experience Your Spirituality.
- Bill Ferguson,
Mastery of Life
Seven Core
Values
1. The inherent worth and dignity of every person.
2. Justice, equity and compassion in human relations.
3. Acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth
in our congregations.
4. A free and responsible search for truth and meaning.
5. The right of conscience and the use of the democratic process
within our congregations and in society at large.
6. The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for
all.
7. Respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we
are a part.
-
Unitarian Universalist
Seven Principles
Noble Eightfold Path of the Buddha
1. Right Views
2. Right Intentions
3. Right Speech
4. Right Action
5. Right Livelihood
6. Right Efforts
7. Right Mindfulness
8. Right Concentration
-
Noble Eightfold Path
Four Principles for a Successful Life
1. The practice of giving love without expectations.
2. To seeking true knowledge of ourselves and of the meaning of existence.
3. Practicing reflection to understand the mistakes we made in life and to
release ourselves from attachment that causes suffering.
4. To develop ourselves so that we can help guide others and to become useful in
the world - to, ultimately, evolve spiritually.
- Ryuho Okawa, The Laws of Happiness, 2004
Characteristics of the More Fully-Functioning Individual
Nonconformity and Individuality
Self-Awareness
Acceptance of Ambiguity and Uncertainty
Tolerance
Acceptance of Human Animality
Commitment and Intrinsic Enjoyment
Creativity and Originality
Social Interest and Ethical Trust
Enlightened Self-Interest
Self-Direction
Flexibility and Scientific Outlook
Unconditional Self-Acceptance
Risk-Taking and Experimenting
Long-Range Hedonism
Work and Practice
- Albert Ellis, The Albert Ellis Reader, p181-194.
Ten Rules for the Good Life
1. Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.
2. Never trouble another for what you can do yourself.
3. Never spend your money before you have it.
4. Never buy what you do not want because it is cheap; it will never be dear to
you.
5. Pride costs us more than hunger, thirst, and cold.
6. Never repent of having eaten too little.
7. Nothing is troublesome that we do willingly.
8. Don't let the evils which have never happened cost you pain.
9. Always take things by their smooth handle.
10. When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry, count to one
hundred.
- Thomas Jefferson, Ten Rules for the Good Life,
1790
Nine Rules for Living the Good Life
Be Grateful.
Be Smart.
Be Involved.
Be Clean.
Be True.
Be Positive.
Be Humble.
Be Still.
Be Prayerful.
- Gordon B. Hinkley, Way to Be!, 2002
Principles for Purposeful Living
1. Unity
2. Self-Determination
3. Collective Work and Responsibility
4. Cooperative Economics
5. Purpose
6. Creativity
7. Faith
- Barbara Dixon,
Seven Principles for Purposeful
Living
Islamic Virtues
Righteousness, Generosity, Gratitude, Contentment, Humility, Kindness,
Courtesy, Purity, Good Speech, Respect, Wisdom, Tolerance,
Justice, Mercy, Dignity, Courage, Firmness, Frankness, Hope, Patience,
Perseverance, Discipline, Self-Restraint, Balance, Moderation,
Prudence, Unity, Frugality, Sincerity, Responsibility, Loyalty, Trustworthiness,
Honesty, Fair-Dealing, Repentance, Spirituality
- Islamic
Virtues, Citations from the Koran
Principles of Enlightened Living - The Six Paramitas
1. Dana Paramita: the perfection of generosity. Unattached
generosity, boundless openness, unconditional love. Open heart, open mind, open
hand.
2. Sila Paramita: virtue, morality.
3. Shanti Paramita: patience, tolerance, forbearance, acceptance,
endurance.
4. Virya Paramita: energy, diligence, courage, enthusiasm, effort.
5. Dhyana Paramita: meditation, absorption, concentration,
contemplation.
6. Prajna Paramita: transcendental wisdom.
-
The Six Principles for Enlightened Living Dharma Talk
The Seven Christian Holy Virtues
1. Humility: modesty, selflessness,
respectful, not prideful or vain.
2. Kindness: compassion, friendliness, gentleness, harming none, sympathy
without prejudice.
3. Patience: forbearance, endurance, composure, forgiveness, not angry.
4. Diligence: energetic, decisive, careful, attentive, enthusiasm,
working, zeal, not lazy.
5. Liberality: generosity, giving, charity, Sermon on the Mount,
vigilance, not covetous or envious.
6. Abstinence: restraint, moderation, temperance, self-control, mindful,
abstinence, not lacking sensual self-control.
7. Chastity: sexual self-control, purity, cleanliness, not lustful.
- Aurelius Clemens Prudentius (c. 410 CE),
Psychomachia and Dante Aligihieri's (c 1315 CE),
Divine Comedy
Disputing
Irrational Beliefs:
Questions to Ask Yourself
1. What self-defeating irrational belief
do I want to dispute and surrender?
2. Can I rationally support this belief?
3. What evidence exists of the falseness of this belief?
4. Does any evidence exist for the truth of this belief?
5. What are the worst things that could actually happen to me if I don't
get
what I think I must (or do get what I think I must
not get)?
6. What good things could I make happen if I don't get what I think I must
(or do get what I think I must not
get)?
- Albert Ellis, Albert Ellis
Reader, p. 140
Bibliography and Links
Cheerfulness
Codes of Ethics Online,
Center of Study of Ethics in the Professions, Illinois Institute of Technology
Green Paths in the Valley Blog
The Spirit of Gardening
Virtue - Wikipedia
The Virtues Project
Willpower: Quotes, Poems,
Sayings
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